Why do smart, capable women often derail their own success?In this groundbreaking guide, transformational teacher and coach Ana Barreto exposes the hidden patterns of self-sabotage and provides a clear path to breaking free. Through intimate stories, practical exercises, and powerful techniques, you'll learn to recognize your sabotage triggers, understand their protective origins, and develop new patterns that support your growth. Transform your relationship with self-sabotage through ten essential lessons this book will teach you.1. Self-Sabotage is a Learned Behavior, Not a Life SentenceSelf-sabotage is often an unconscious response rooted in past experiences, societal conditioning, and self-limiting beliefs. Once we recognize it as a pattern, we gain the power to change it.2. Awareness is the First Step to TransformationBefore change can happen, we must become aware of how we hold ourselves back. The book encourages deep self-reflection to uncover hidden habits, excuses, and fears.3. Clarity is PowerSelf-sabotage thrives in confusion. Gaining clarity about what we truly want and what's blocking us helps us take intentional steps toward growth and fulfillment.4. Fear Masquerades as LogicMany of our excuses-"I don't have time," "I'm not ready yet," "I need more experience"-are fear disguised as logic. Challenging these excuses is key to breaking free.5. Happiness is Both the Goal and the JourneyTrue happiness isn't found at a final destination; it's a daily practice. Healing self-sabotage means allowing ourselves to experience joy in the present rather than deferring it.6. Breaking Patterns Requires Interrupting the CycleThe book introduces tools like the PAUSE Method to help us recognize and stop self-sabotaging behaviors before they take over.7. Comfort Zones Can Be CagesStaying in our comfort zone feels safe but limits growth. Stepping beyond it, even in small ways, helps us build confidence and expand our potential.8. Self-Worth Dictates SuccessAt the core of many self-sabotaging behaviors is a belief that we don't deserve happiness, success, or love. Rewriting this narrative is essential for personal growth.9. Small Actions Lead to Big ChangesWe don't need to overhaul our lives overnight. Consistent small shifts-changing our self-talk, setting boundaries, or taking imperfect action-can create profound transformation over time.10. Self-Compassion is the Antidote to Self-SabotageHarsh self-judgment only reinforces negative patterns. The book encourages self-kindness, patience, and celebrating small wins as we unlearn self-sabotaging behaviors.
These lessons are woven together with real-life examples, practical exercises, and two powerful guided meditations, providing you with everything you need to break free from self-sabotage and step into your full potential. This isn't just about understanding self-sabotage - it's about transforming it into fuel for growth.Order your copy of Breaking Free from Self-Sabotage today!
