Ben was told by his father-in-law to Grow Up. He tried, with adventures on the high seas, in the old Deep South, in the frigid north. With his constant search for love and redemption, Ben usually just found bullies.???This is his memoir, for real this time, including a pedophile uncle, the London Blitz, his OSS spy mother, getting beaten almost to death by White Power thugs, becoming a Brother, falling madly in love, being tossed out in his hour of most dire need, and finally, discovering his healing garden. At last, Ben found love, given and received. It should be a movie.