The imperfect book written with the perfect message. It’s purposely flawed (meaning it was deliberately edited to have mistakes). She wanted the world to understand imperfections are apart life and if you see yourself and people beyond the flaws there is beauty and so is the story.

Socialized to have a need for belongingness; and it came at the expense of ridicule, criticism, & losing who Dr. Pam was. How mentally toxic and taxing it was to live a life living up to other people’s standards of whom she needed to be. She had to STOP IT! She had to change the narrative & stop believing in the stereotyping of whom she was taught to believe she should be! She had to heal, get real, forgive, and learn to sit on her pedestal to holistically see the world differently. Now, she does not allow judgment to change who she is. Dr. Pam no longer allows anyone to determine what she loves, how she loves or reduce who she is because of their own insecurities or mental demons. She is letting the world know she is not a stereotype…I am H.E.R!

Now it’s your turn! It’s time to live your unapologetic truth. Be encouraged and inspired to look at your life, be comfortable in your skin, sit on your pedestal, and start having discussions to change the narrative of imperfection in this world filled with criticism, social inequality, and social judgment.