It leads couples through topics from the philosophical to the practical, and answers the tough questions such as: Now that you can get legally married, should you? And why bother having a wedding, especially where it’s not yet legal to do so? It also includes: sharing the news with your family; the latest trends in gay engagement rings; how to place same-sex wedding announcements in newspapers; tips on cutting down that enormous guest list; how to navigate tradition and still make your celebration your own; what to carry down the aisle if you don’t feel comfortable carrying a bouquet; and making the Internet your wedding resource.