My wife, Kris, lived with breast cancer for over 16 years. My intentions for writing this account is twofold: 1.To help me with the grieving process, and 2.To help others with cancer or their caregivers by re-counting how our family dealt with situations you, too, may experience.Kris’ journey of cancer is recalled in its clinical progression, as is her journey from lax Catholic to one with renewed faith, hope, and finally acceptance.I share the knowledge we gained and offer suggestions on topics, including:The steps to acceptance and how they differ for patient and supportDealing with setbacks and recurrencesWhy we used both a physical and spiritual approach to her illnessHow to approach God for helpThe relationship between you and your doctor(s)Hair loss in chemo and loss of body partsAcceptance of the patient’s ‘bucket list’ behaviorThe process of grieving