I am a successful business man. I start up software companies and consult with large organizations to improve the way they do business. As a military brat we moved a lot. My father thought it best to never tell us when a move was going to happen. We would come home and see the car packed up. We knew it was time. I knew there would be no goodbyes. No mailing of letters. No more contact. We were taught to disconnect. New friends would be made. A new home would be unpacked. I lived more and more in the darkness of my mind. I struggled with women through high school and college. I didn’t date much. I was afraid of what I would do to them. It took me a while to come to grips with what I was. What my desires were. I finally found through the BDSM community and accidental meetings of like minded people that I wasn’t the only one who felt this way. I discovered I was a Dominant. This consolidation of short stories chronicles the introduction of people into the BDSM lifestyle. I describe techniques used.