Was marriage a habit? How did we communicate but still didn’t get it? Was intimacy understood? Was God in our lives? Did we always have to play together? Were our parents good role models? How did the gender gap affect our marriage? Has it been difficult to deal with the changes in the golden years? Read the answers to these questions and more from seniors who have been married at least 40 years, including those who have been widowed or divorced after 40 years. The generation that married in the 1940s and 1950s has a long and unique history that the boomer generation and younger adults lack. These seniors provide answers that will help the Now Generation understand what it takes to make a marriage survive successfully over many decades.