The Organ Question: Statements by Dr. Ritchie, and Dr. Porteous, for and Against the Use of the Organ in Public Worship (1856)

Ah, me! she sighed. It is hard to know how to get along with him. If every thing isn’t just to suit his fancy, off he goes. I might humour him more than I do, but it isn’t in me to humour any one. And for a man to want to be humoured! Oh, dear! oh, dear! this is a wretched way to live; it will kill me in the end. These men expect their own way in every thing, and if they don’t get it, then there is trouble. I’m not fit to be Henry’s wife. He ought to have married a woman with less independence of spirit; one who would have been the mere creature of his whims and fancies.