How To Turn That First Glance Into A Date was written to help the reader overcome the fear of rejection and develop the confidence to approach, talk to, flirt with and ask someone out on a date. Using NLP, coaching and fear busting exercises this book offers a step by step approach to first help a person overcome the fear of rejection and then build the confidence necessary to make your last missed connection a thing of the past. Ah, That First Glance! Ah, that first glance! You know the one where you look up and see a beautiful stranger. You feel an instant attraction, but wonder what to do. You can only imagine how great it would be to have someone like that in your life, and you feel the urge to approach. Hesitating to contemplate your move, your eyes suddenly meet but you look away quickly as if to pretend that you never even noticed the object of your desire. Asking yourself What did I do that for? a familiar little voice pops into your head telling you what an idiot you are. Realizing it’s now or never you desperately want to strike up a conversation and the pressure is on. As you try to muster up the confidence, you become painfully aware of that seemingly invisible force that has held you back before. Luckily, your natural instinct tells you to take another look, after all, that’s what happens when two people feel an initial attraction, but that negative little voice pipes up again, yelling don’t do it, they will see you and then what will you do? Your mind starts racing, bombarding you with negative scenarios, and before you know it your little fantasy has been hijacked by all those self defeating thoughts which pop into your head whenever you’re around someone that you find attractive. Determined to take action you wonder what to do. Smile? Talk? Or, just leave the scene. You can’t resist any longer, so you glance back over and … Oh Gawd, the worst possible scenario…. They’re looking back at you too….you’ve been busted!
