Do gay men communicate with each other differently than they do with straight people? If they do, how is gay men’s English? different from straight English ? This work addresses these questions and looks at gay men’s English as a cultural and a linguistic phenomenon. This text focuses not on items of vocabulary, word history and folklore but on linguistic practices - co-operation, negotiation and risk-taking - which underlie gay men’s conversations, storytelling, verbal duelling, self-description and construction of outrageous references. The author reads conversations for covert and overt signs of gay men’s English, using anecdotes drawn from gay dinner parties, late-night airplane flights, restaurants, department stores and gourmet shops, and other all-gay and gay/straight settings. He incorporates material from other interviews and discussions with gay men, life-story narratives, gay magazines, newspapers, books and material from his own life. The topics addressed include establishing the gay identities of suspect gays , recollections of gay childhood, erotic negotiation in health club locker rooms, and gay men’s language of AIDS. The text shows how gay English speakers use language to create gay-centred spaces within public places, to protect themselves when speaking with strangers, and to establish common interests when speaking with suspect gays . It also explores why learning gay English is a critical component in gay men’s socialization and the acquisition of gay culture.