A Question of Age

Jacinta Parsons

A Question of Age
Format
Paperback
Publisher
ABC Books
Country
Australia
Published
7 September 2022
Pages
304
ISBN
9780733342165

A Question of Age

Jacinta Parsons

Grappling with ageing is one of the most confronting elements of being a woman. When we become invisible, when we lose our sexual currency, when we lose that elasticity in our skin, when our bodies soften and change, when our perceived 'value' to society dramatically falls, when our notion of self-worth takes a radical shift.

What do we do when our outside self doesn't match our inside self? That old woman staring back at her reflection in the mirror doesn't understand why she feels so young. So how do we adjust our perceptions of getting older? What does it mean to age as a woman? How do we adjust our thinking about being in the world? What is our currency now?

Jacinta believes that midlife is a crucial reckoning with despair and hope, a time when you are naked in the centre of the world and no-one notices or perhaps cares to look. Midlife is a time when you take stock – to look back and understand how you were made as a woman, and to look forward into the future, to see how you might unmake yourself to live the life that perhaps you should be living.

A Question of Age is incendiary, raging and raw, but also compassionate, insightful and powerfully energising. It is a book for every woman looking in the mirror thinking she no longer recognises herself. It is a book for our times.

Review

Jacinta Parsons’ superpower is that she is an utterly compelling communicator. She resonates with people all over Australia because she is unafraid to speak the truth with honesty, warmth and humour. This empathetic approach to life is clear in her daily role on public radio, but it is also apparent within her writing. (Her first book, Unseen: The Secret World of Chronic Illness, was a bestseller.) When Parsons tells a story, she stands in the middle of it, looks around, and asks insightful questions without making accusations or generalisations, and without forgetting to also consider who, what and where she is in relation to that story. Her approach to research allows readers and listeners a view into Parsons’ own life. By sharing with us her own intimate details, she broadens the conversation until, before we know it, we all feel like we’re involved.

Her latest book, A Question of Age, explores the social construct of ageing, how women age and what society does to them in this process. This is very clearly not a self-help, feel-good-about-yourself-in-three- simple-steps type of book. This is a memoir (of sorts) that raises questions of how people perceive each other and themselves. Parsons begins at the beginning – as a young child – and then marches us through the years (of her life and the lives of many others). Readers of Monica Dux and Clem Bastow will enjoy her self-effacing and well- considered writing. All three of these writers scrutinise their own stories to deliberate on something that is larger than their own self. Parsons, in this book, permits herself to lament at how we (the ‘we’ of our societal norm) view midlife. And it’s not a spoiler to say we don’t view it well.


Chris Gordon is the community engagement and programming manager for Readings.

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