Even though I do not have all the answers, I have learned many things that I would like to share with you. Just know that this book is not written to put any woman down. Absolutely not! However, I need to ask you some questions. Have you ever dated a man for several years, ended the relationship, and then found out that man you were dating all those years got married to someone else less than six months later? How about the players? Have you dealt with them? What about going from relationship to relationship and experiencing the same thing over and over with the men you date? Say what you want, but if that was me, I would feel some kind of way. That does not mean that there was something wrong with you. Sometimes it has nothing to do with you. It could be that he’s just not ready. On the other hand, isn’t it easy to find fault with the man without even checking to see if it’s something you are doing? Could he see that you are still damaged from your last relationship or could it possibly be that you are not financially stable yourself? You do know that a man doesn’t want a broke woman either, right? Lol. You know I’m telling the truth. I wrote this book to help you and tell you the truth, and sometimes the truth hurts. But, I would never disrespect God’s chosen vessels that are female. I was raised by a beautiful mother who is now in heaven. I believe she is looking down on me, waiting to see what I am doing with all the knowledge and wisdom she’s invested in me. This is why I write to you, my friends. I have three beautiful chocolate sisters whom I love and greatly adore and want nothing but the best for them, and also for you. Give me a chance before you cut me off, tune me out, or unplug me. Just hear what I have to say. Let me open my heart, expose my feelings, give you a piece of my mind, and share with you what I believe are some of the issues that are holding women back from marrying the man of their dreams. After reading this book, you will learn: 1. How to detect if the man desires marriage or if he plans on enjoying the single life forever. 2. How to self examine yourself as a woman before you inspect a man. 3. How being damaged from your past relationship can have an effect on a man’s decision to marry you.