In 2015, marriage equality is now the law of the land in the USA. Don't ask don't tell is a thing of the past and LGBTQ representations are in movies, television, and social media. Despite these milestones teenage bullying resulting in deaths due to suicide is being documented throughout the USA. Did these teenagers die in vain? Is that attraction a lifestyle or a real authentic life? Adam & Steve, The Rules for Men who are Attracted to other Men, is written as an easy to read smart, sexy, and provocative road map about male same sex attraction along with this author's findings that this is a real culture. Primarily this book will speak to three different audiences. One is a same sex attracted male teen or preteen who may be discovering his own sexuality or is being bullied because of it. The other is the adult male who may understand his sexuality, but not his obligation to others who come behind him. The third group is the parent or family member who just wants to be supportive.