This book was written to inspire and give hope. It was also written to educate. You can find love at any age. I speak directly to widows, widowers and single people in general regarding having courage and faith to love again. My target audience for women would be anyone 35 and older. Specifically, women over 50. Statistics seem to show data that it's harder to find a spouse or love for that matter once you reach a certain age. I am a witness that what God has for you is for you. If he has a spouse for you, it will come to pass. I also speak to the single woman praying for a spouse. I charge you to block out the chatter of society norms and here me please. It does not take long for a man to know if he wants to marry you. Society has duped people into falling for a time frame fallacy. Quite the contrary, men know pretty quickly if you are wifey or not.

Every case is different. You should definitely make sure you are certain not to rush into any relationship haphazardly. However, pray and ask God to navigate your path. The bible says He who finds a wife finds a good thing. Women should not pursue men. Women should not be looking for a man, but carry herself in a manner that attracts a quality man. My love story is proof that you should not dismiss a potential soulmate because of the timeframes set by people. I researched the topics and I will share my findings. I will share facts and data as well as biblical scripture and doctrine. I believe in the word of God, so this book will have a strong biblical influence. It's because of God I am married to my soul mate. I know that many people will need more than just the word of God to totally get what I'm trying to convey, so no worries. I will provide that in this book.

I chose to title this book "Cuffed '' because it is a term growing in popularity in our culture to mean married, in a relationship, or off the market. Urban dictionary states it means to start an exclusive relationship. People are also referencing "Cuffing Season" as a time when people who are normally single cuff up in the winter. I thought the title would be hip and urban and also an attention grabber for a middle aged fox like myself. I will discuss some pretty heavy things in this book, so being fun and edgy with the title may add balance and interest. I will share a few things in hopes to encourage men and women on this journey of life hoping to be "Cuffed" permanently with their soulmate. I will share my testimony about God sending my Boaz. God blessed me with a wonderful man of God.