The modern world is very complex and diverse. Thousands of people every day decide on the most important step in life - the creation of family, the cell of society.Young people face all kinds of difficulties and psychological barriers when it comes to deciding whether or not to marry.Firstly, the complexity of the very union of two people as a social and psychological system. Secondly, the future family includes a large number of all kinds of relationships and interrelationships, for the formation of which the personal characteristics of each member, social environment, customs, traditions, social and economic conditions are important.Third, the secrecy and intimacy of many premarital events is compounded by their variability and lack of clear contours, which creates some uncertainty and, in some cases, a sense of danger, which undoubtedly has a significant impact on the psycho-emotional state of the future spouses, which contributes to their anxiety level.