This is a Christian perspective on A Thousand Tears: An Enabler’s Journey. The book has more than a 100 Scriptures to validate the principles for recovering from Enabling. It identifies the Enabler’s Cycle and our conflict with individuals with Substance Use Disorder. Identifying a manipulative, devouring or toxic relationships in our life and learning to confront and detach. It also includes multiple self-assessment tools: Enabler’s paradigm, entanglement gauge, anxiety quotient, trust scales, guilt traps, distance evaluator, entitlement attitude and much more.