Are you looking and wondering if you are going to be with someone this Valentineas Day or perhaps whether this year will be the one when you finally meet that perfect person who transforms your life? In reality, so many of us are trying to make it happen while coordinating events that many times leave God out of our plans while convincing ourselves that He is on our side, when in fact you just left God at the sidelines. If you ever looked at your social calendar and sighed heavily or ignored friends and relatives who bombarded you with the ultimate question, aSo do you have anyone in your life?a or had someone so special who just didnat see you in that special way, then you can relate to what I learned and have been learning, and that as much as I want to be in control, I need to let God lead.