Like the subject about which she writes, Perlman engages the reader immediately, permitting a view into the author’s rich and varied experiences, threaded throughout with profound compassion for all those who seek, suffer, and strive… . [This is] a welcome and wise effort, written with grace, sense and deep humanism. Were it in my power I would make it mandatory reading for all those who seek to offer others help. –Shirley Cooper, American Journal of Orthopsychiatry