A favorite topic is finding someone to marry then having marital problems in that order. You could go see your pastor, but chances are he is having problems too. Aside from going to see the counselor, what else can you do. You could always go back and visit past traumas together. But after that, you find you no longer like each other as well. Basically, all men fall into three categories. It is up to the ladies to bear with them cause love suffers long. Perhaps you are like me finding yourself married to all three. Then the ladies could either be passive or aggressive. Frankly, you may feel a little hopeless. Aside from murdering your spouse or dragging them to court, let us see what God has to say about the matter first. So dear reader, whether you are looking for someone or now just need some help this book is for you.